-23), you are bound to make much better decisions in dating situations. The Bible provides some crucial relational principles but doesn't address the specifics. You can't follow antiquated courtship rituals anymore. Asking a woman's father if you can date his daughter without consulting her first might be a good way to never get a first date.) You also don't have a scriptural field manual that tells you how to behave in every situation.Your head and your heart should be in Scripture at all times, but you won't find specific guidelines for dating. The answer isn't in the Bible (though the Song of Solomon sure gives us a clue). It's up to you to be in prayer and conversation with your Christian community about these things. I thought my wife was out of my league when I met her.There are "Christian dating" ideas floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths around Christian dating.
God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.
God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.
All they have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.
Regardless of your theology on the Predestination of Girlfriends, you're probably eager to be an active participant in your dating life. People didn't date in biblical times, there is no such thing as "Biblical Dating".
Dating as a socially accepted means of finding a mate has been around for less than a century.