Here are our tips to help you navigate the online dating space with the efficiency of a confident bloke in a bar who leaves with three guys’ numbers. Apps like Grindr, Hornet and Scruff have all been primarily designed to suit guys looking for sex.In the case of these apps it’s all about simple, functional conversations that are also polite.
Politely suggest a date, time and location and we reckon you’ll be off on your date sharpish – with the amount of guys that are too afraid, or too lazy, to pursue good online conversations or ask people out on dates, you’ll be onto a winner.
” Wait to see if you get a response, then tell the other guy what you’re looking for. Then, you’ll notice in people’s profiles (even gay sex apps have short profiles) whether or not they “can accom” or “can’t accom.” Offer to accommodate if you can, or want to or accept another’s offer if they say.
“Do you fancy meeting to play,” or something simple like “I’m free now, and horny, shall we meet? We’d recommend meeting in public first, no matter the time of day or night, as regardless of instant connection you are still meeting a stranger and probably heading to a private place. Forget everything we’ve said and get ready to rethink the lot, because guys after dates are a very different breed.
You’ll be presented with a list of guys by their location, and unlike the apps designed for dating, there isn’t an opportunity to ‘match’ with other guys.
Choose one you like the look of, and say something simple, like: “Hi, how’s it going?