Tread carefully, obviously; don’t go full-on “disgruntled holidaymaker on Trip Advisor” on their ass.Focus on the positives: telling each other how great it was, what you liked and that you can't wait to do it again.Exploring bedroom compatibility from the start can help you determine whether you want to actually invest in a relationship with this person. “It all comes down to knowing your own comfort level and what you're looking for.It's worth taking the time to explore your feelings about one-night stands before you're in a situation where you could potentially have one.” One reason to get it on ASAP?The adrenaline subsides, your breathing returns to normal, you’ve both been in the animalistic throes of passion – but now you’re yourselves again. Feedback is important for most things – if constructive it can guarantee you a good time, every time.Don’t be afraid to say what you liked, or would like to try next time.
So, yes to those travel plans, small business ideas, and no to wanting to be the first man in the country to eat a burger the size of Brentford and live.Think of it as replacing energy for a potential replay.Eating together afterward is a bonding experience; you can sit together mutually contented, enjoying another sensory satisfaction without having to make much effort. Hell, these beliefs have been around since the Victorian era! ) roll your eyes, but we all know how persistent stigmas about sex and sexuality are.Of course, if they’ve read this too and are trying to stay awake longer than you, you could be in for an eternally sleepless hell of “no, you first”. If you can still stand up after your horizontal workout, you may be energised enough to hit the gym.Some schools of thought say higher testosterone levels after sex mean you can go all-out in the gym after and help with muscle building.Word of advice, though: Before you hop into bed, just be clear on what you’re looking for (a relationship? ) so you can both make informed choices and be honest about your expectations.A few readers speak from personal experience: “Sex on the first date is so over-thought, especially nowadays with apps like Tinder and Bumble making the topic less taboo.Scientists say it’s fairly common to feel a temporary loss of attraction for your other half after sex – admit it, these science guys are when it comes to finding excuses for being unaffectionate.This power-down is supposed to help the body realign itself and get back to a normal state so you’re not lost in post-coital bliss and neglecting your duties – which is a very "science from the back of a shampoo bottle" way to say it's fine to want to wander off and play Fortnite before the wet patch is dry. ” you can message them later, after hours of their not returning your calls.