It's basically an online community of perverts and misfits who get into online fantasy and cyber sex like games.This is not a site for anyone who is really seriously about hooking up in real life.
So you sign up as regular no money then you get bombarded with emails they have all these people hitting you up so makes you think WOW! What there doing is scamming you to join gold membership then you sign up to find out there bots and fake people so when you go to cancel they are more then happy but will not refund your money what a racquet huge money maker but it's stealing no matter what Site is not user friendly. There's no point in using this site for 2 reasons: its way too expensive and there are almost no real girls there, mostly fakes.
Also after I complained they had some people write me who are called "ambassadors" who make an attempt to welcome you to the site and although it is a nice gesture they are full of condescending advice again on how it is your fault that you're not meeting anyone "oh if only you would post a million photos, and go into every chat room and do this and do that" again every excuse in the world except for their lame site.
I am no fan whatsoever of sites like POF but even as horrible as that site was, I actually met people.
I am a woman using Adultfriendfinder so my experiences may be a little different but in my opinion Adultfriendfinder is one of the few sites which are actually worth joining. Unlike this place which seems to be a compilation of scammers. This site hit its prime time way long ago when it was one of the pioneers of online dating. Just find other trustable sites and stop the circle of lies, and surely you'll get what you want.
I mean as a woman you usually don't have any issues finding guys who are looking for a good time but somehow it seems like most guys on Adultfriendfinder are nicer and more respectful. Screw the haters yo adult friend finder is still up there with hookuphangout and tinder as the nearest you are gonna get to a sure thing in this game.